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May 2022
45m 33s

How to Get Your Anger Under Control

THE ART OF MANLINESS
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When you look back on the moments you regret most in your life, a fair number of them likely involved you being angry. And if these cringe-inducing, life- and relationship-damaging moments happen more often than you'd like, then it's time to start thinking about how to get a handle on your anger. My guest today offers help in that process. His name is Dr. C ... Show More
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