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May 2024
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Why it's hard to stop comparing yourself...

BODY + Soul
About this episode

Comparison culture is rife, especially in motherhood and it can do a number on your self-esteem. So, how do you stop comparing yourself? Author and journalist Melissa Wilson discusses her experience and shares some top advice. 

 

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To hear today's full interview, where she discusses whether motherhood is good for women’s mental wellbeing...search for Extra Healthy-ish wherever you get your pods.

For more on Mel’s book Parenting in Progress (HarperCollins, $34.99) see here. You can catch her @melwilson_journo

 

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