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May 2024

25m 39s

How to Fix Sibling Fights and Aggression

Erin Royer, MA Clinical Psychology, Child Development Specialist

About this episode

Discord between siblings is normal. But what do you do when it escalates to aggression or a level of conflict that is out of alignment with your family values? In this episode, I answer a question from a mom of toddlers about what's going on between her toddler and preschooler, why the behavior is happening, and how to fix it so everyone can feel safe and supported at home during their independent play.

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