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Apr 2024
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Why Men Lose Interest After Sex (and wha...

Shane Kohler
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Delving into the intricate world of hormones and neurochemistry, Shane unveils the fascinating factors that influence how men bond with women, shedding light on the mysteries of post-sex behavior.

Through captivating discussions and insightful revelations, Shane explores the hormonal blueprint that governs male attraction and connection. From the role of oxytocin, the "bonding hormone," to the impact of vasopressin, dopamine and testosterone, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of how these chemicals shape men's emotional responses and desire for intimacy.

But beyond the science, Shane also delves into the emotional and psychological aspects that contribute to lasting connection. By examining the importance of communication, emotional vulnerability, and shared experiences, he offers practical insights on how to create a fulfilling and enduring bond with a partner.

Whether you're navigating the complexities of dating, seeking to understand male behavior, or looking to enhance intimacy in your relationship, this episode provides invaluable guidance to empower both men and women to cultivate meaningful connections based on mutual understanding and respect.

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