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Apr 2024
21m 34s

I've been making people upset most of my...

Janell Roberts
About this episode

People will hate you because when they see you, they see what they lack in. So in order to be close they will befriend you in order to surveillance you. Give them grace, because they will never see their own greatness. I’ve always been a good scapegoat for people, I’ve always been easy to blame for people. So if you're going through a similar issue, this episode is for you <3

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