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May 2016
5m 52s

This Makes People Want to Be Around You

MATTHEW HUSSEY
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Ever notice that the people you want to be around most are the ones who make you feel great about yourself? I’ve got a simple technique for making others want to be around you, and it takes very little effort on your part.  It’s one of my top secrets of charisma, and in this episode I’ll tell you how to get your hands on all of the others that will make you an expert with people.

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