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Mar 2024
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Ep. 232 - Getting over an ex who betraye...

Breakup Coach Dorothy
About this episode

In today's episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and guest Luke Shillings, whose ex was a Braveheart, talk about getting over an ex who betrayed you and the lessons he's learned from the betrayal. 

Join them as they talk about Luke's journey from his experience of betrayal, co-parenting and healing his relationship with his ex, learning to become a better parent, and becoming a coach himself. If you've experienced betrayal, today's episode will leave you with tangible tools and also hope in overcoming and getting to the other side of betrayal. You've got this braveheart!

Learn more about Luke: https://www.lifecoachluke.com/

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