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Sep 2022
28m 19s

106. Ask Yourself the Right Questions

Dr. Marie Murphy
About this episode
Maybe you want to leave your marriage, but you’re not sure exactly why yet. Perhaps you think your marriage is something you should aspire to and value, but you’re not fully wanting it. Asking yourself, “Why would I want to leave a perfect relationship?” is the wrong question. So, in this episode, Dr. Marie Murphy is showing you how to ask yourself the right questions that show you what you really want, not what you think you should want.     Get full show notes and more information here: https://mariemurphyphd.com/106
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