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Mar 2024
43m 6s

Stop Yelling: 5 Neuroscience-Backed Tips...

Dear Media and Big Little Feelings
About this episode
If you’re stuck in an endless cycle of yelling, threatening, and then feeling super guilty afterwards, you’re not alone. AND, today’s episode is for *you.* By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with an *exact* roadmap on how to handle those extremely common parenting triggers (your child’s crying, mess, whining) and find the right coping tools FOR YOU ... Show More
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