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Mar 2024
1h 25m

Discover your personal erotic blueprint ...

Layla Martin
About this episode

Shownotes

  • How to identify your sexual love languages
  • Jaiya and Ian’s 5 types of erotic blueprints
  • How to use sex as a tool for spiritual awakening
  • Shifting from shutdown to a new portal of ecstasy
  • The culture of sex teachers, ethics and cults
  • How to step outside your comfort zone sexually

Jaiya and Ian Bio 

Jaiya, Award-Winning Somatic Sexologist, Author, Star of Netflix's “Sex, Love & goop”

Jaiya Ma and Ian Ferguson are Somatic Sexologists, founders of The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ and stars of Netflix's Sex, Love & goop.

Author of Your Blueprint for Pleasure, Jaiya has immersed herself in the study of turn-ons, ancient erotic rituals, tantric sex, mastery of sensual touch, pure erotic play, kinky dynamics, and the biology and psychology of attraction and sexual fulfillment and is widely recognized as a leader in the field of sexology. 

Jaiya and Ian’s The Erotic Blueprint™ is a map of arousal that reveals one’s specific erotic language and patterning and helps create a path forward to greater sexual fulfillment. 

These world-renowned sex experts can be seen speaking on stages around the world with thought leaders like Mama Gena and Neil Strauss and on television shows such as Ricki Lake, The Doctors, Good Morning America and many more.

You can follow Jaiya’s work on Instagram @missjaiya and take the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Quiz here.

 

Timestamp

00:00:00 - Episode highlights

00:00:30 - This Tantric Life with Layla Martin 

00:01:06 - Introduction to Jaiya & Ian

00:02:35 - Tell me a moment of your life that set you on your path

00:07:20 - Sexual Love Language - when you realize you are wired differently

00:11:05 - Connect with Layla - join now: https://laylamartin.com/join-list/

00:11:45 - The erotic blueprints - 5 types 

00:15:39 - What are the sexual, kinky and sensual blueprints? 

00:25:00 - Tantric Mastermind for Couples: https://vita.laylamartin.com/tantric-mastermind

00:32:43 - This is a system that lets you feel known and then to understand your partner, will you share some of your deeper teachings?

00:38:49 - One of the frameworks is to know, own and live

00:44:15 - Definition of sex is just another tool for awakening spiritually

00:48:09 - How can someone discover a new portal of ecstasy?

00:48:28 - Let’s drink some Sex Magic

00:51:58 - Sex teachers, ethics, cults, and empowering spiritual transmissions

00:54:34 - Cheers to MOOD™ Sex Magic https://shopmood.com

00:56:06 - How you would try something that was previously outside your comfort zone,

01:00:50 - Ecstatic States - how do we stabilize these states that we visit? 

01:06:00 - Desire can fuel illusion

01:07:15 - The personal journey and dealing with cancer

01:21:01 - How to work with Jaiya & Ian: https://missjaiya.com/

01:24:53 - Conclusion - thank you for listening to This Tantric Life with Layla Martin

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