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Mar 2024
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How Self-Sabotage Is Tied to the Fear of...

KATERINA ELEFTHERIOU
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In this episode, I explore self-sabotage and how it relates to the fear of abandonment. I also offer some tips on how to distinguish between what’s actually not right for you and what’s just self-sabotage holding you back from what you want because you don’t believe you are worthy of it.

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To be clear, I am not a therapist! I am just very interested in and passionate about self-awareness and personal growth :)

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