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Mar 2024
26m 37s

89: How illusion is ruining your sex lif...

NATALIE KENNEDY
About this episode

My most "meta" episode yet...

 

If your suffering about your relationship is caused by comparisons to illusions (rose-colored memories of your ex, Disney, Tiktok), then can we flip the dynamic on its head and re-invigorate the relationship by using illusion to our advantage?

 

Warning: I'm about to ruin attraction for you in this episode.

 

**Upcoming: Sex Anxiety Clinic with Shayna Hiller - A virtual masterclass to awaken pleasure, and release shame and dread in the bedroom: March 14, 2024 at 2pm PST/5pm EST. Register here.

 

Ask me anything on Wisio: www.wisio.com/anxiouslovecoach

 

Who we are:

Natalie Kennedy @Anxiouslovecoach

 

 

Time Stamps:

4:55 - Falling for the illusion of your partner

13:00 - Finding a partner that challenges your unconsciousness

16:35 - Two ways to improve your sex life

22:55 - Our sex anxiety clinic

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