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Nov 2022
58m 2s

067 Pansexuality and living with Herpes ...

Emily Duncan
About this episode

Alysha Oorjitham features in this episode. 

Emily and Alysha discuss:

  • Pansexuality, what is it and what does it mean to Alysha?
  • Bisexuality vs Pansexuality vs Queer
  • Alysha’s journey with her sexuality
  • Internalised homophobia 
  • Am I queer enough?
  • Queer sexual and relationship scripts
  • Advice for those wanting to explore their sexuality
  • Alysha’s experience being HSV+
  • Sexual health in vulva and vulva sex
  • Herpes testing process

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