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Oct 29
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173 Exploring Kink and BDSM with Coby Ba...

Emily Duncan
About this episode

This episode features Coby Baker, a sexologist and devoted artist.

Emily and Coby discussed:

  • What is Kink and BDSM
  • Development of kinks
  • Common practices
  • Difference between a kink and a fetish
  • How to explore kink and BDSM safely
  • Communication
  • How to talk to your partner about a kink you want to explore
  • Aftercare

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