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Sep 2024
39m 7s

Ask Emily: Orgasms, Orientation & Oral

Dr. Emily Morse
About this episode

On today’s show, I answer your sex and relationship questions. I cover what to do if you’re questioning your sexuality while married with kids, how to initiate your first threesome, when (if ever) you should tell your partner how many people you’ve slept with, and ways to get more comfortable while giving oral sex.

I also talk about what to do if the porn you watch makes you feel guilty, how to approach exploring a fetish without shame, what to do if you disagree with your partner about having another child and what it means when you cry after sex.


In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How honest, heartfelt conversations about intimacy can reignite connection and strengthen emotional bonds with your partner.
  • Techniques to overcome sexual conditioning and experience pleasure in new ways through mindfulness and open communication.
  • The importance of exploring sexual fantasies with clear boundaries and how they can evolve as part of a healthy sexual journey.



Show Notes:


See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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