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Feb 2025
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Episode 375: What’s Your Erotic Persona?

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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How would you describe your personality in the bedroom? What do you like to do sexually? What do you need from your partners? What turns you on? In today’s show, we’re going to explore erotic personas. New research based on a survey of more than 100,000 adults sheds light on the 4 main types of erotic personas that exist. My guest is Nicholas Velotta, a PhD ... Show More
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