Jul 17

Why the Spark Always Fades (& What Actually Lasts)

Throwback to one of my favorite conversations! That "spark" you're chasing? It might not be attraction… it might be a trauma response. I sat down with Dr. Scott Lyons to break down the difference between real, sustainable chemistry and what he calls the "trauma tingle,” that hype ... Show More

1h 4m

Jul 14

How To Know What You Really Want in Bed

Today, we're diving into pillar four of Sex IQ: self-knowledge. This is the pillar that ties everything together, because once you understand your body (embodiment), your health, and how to collaborate with a partner, the real magic happens when you actually know what turns you o ... Show More

35m 8s

Jul 10

What I Wish I Knew About Sex in My 20s

In this episode, I'm going back to my 20s and telling you everything I wish someone had told me about sex back then. The reality is that almost nobody has a clue in their 20s, and we're all just figuring it out together. I talk about why I confused being validated with actually b ... Show More

44m 43s

Mar 2024

I Blow And Tell

Hello sexy listeners! 😍Today, in this episode, I’m spilling the tea on a surprise visit from Cowboy N. We’re talking years of fiery chemistry and how to keep your sex life sizzling. Ever wondered about the power of breasts in your erotic play or how dominance can dial up the des ... Show More

41m 48s

Jun 2021

The Ultimate Guide To Dirty Talk: 60+ Tips & Examples

Thank you for engaging and learning Dirty Talk with us! We’re so glad you’re here (for real). If you’re looking to support the work we do or experiment with something new in the bedroom, please check out our affiliate links and use code DRJESSVIP to save when shopping. Code DRJES ... Show More

38m 43s

Feb 2024

A Spicey Seduction

What's up, sexy listeners? In this episode I’m turning up the heat with some steamy bedroom talk, where dirty words and role-play lead the dance of desire with Chef W. It's all about listening and loving each other's kinks, folks. And because I can't get enough of your juicy quer ... Show More

43m 6s

Jan 2023

Come Talk About Sex With Me

Today I’m getting through some great voicemails and emails from my listeners. We are covering some of my favorite topics; blowjobs, where to find sexy people to explore with, reclamation sex, exploring threesomes, best dating apps for casual hookups, premature ejaculation and ton ... Show More

59m 42s

Feb 2025

Let Me Give You Some Dirty Advice

This episode is a wild ride, and I’m here for it! I’m answering listener questions about age gaps (ooh, the drama!), prostate pleasure (yes, yes, YES!), and why we all deserve some privacy while enjoying our favorite adult content. 😘 Plus, I’m sharing tips on how to spice things ... Show More

42m 32s

Nov 2023

Lusty Developments

Ready to explore the wild side of pleasure with me? “Cum” with me on a journey through the thrilling world of kinks, the intoxicating excitement of being watched, and the tantalizing mix of layering pleasure and pain. To hear about my latest risqué adventures, and my answer to a ... Show More

32m 36s

May 2023

2077: How to Have Better Sex Featuring Dr. Emily Morse

In this episode Sal, Adam & Justin speak with sex expert, Dr. Emily on how to add more fun to the bedroom. Why is sexual health so important? (1:47) How stress, trauma, and shame are pleasure thieves. (4:40) Having an unhealthy relationship with masturbation. (8:17) Porn without ... Show More

1h 51m

Jul 2025

Safe Words & Spankings: Inside The Kinky Coaching Bedroom

Ready for a whip-smart convo that’ll tie you up in all the best ways? 😉 Miss Kay returns with her pal Stacy to talk about launching her “Top to Bottom Coaching” biz, and honey—it’s hot. They chat about newbies, naughty goals, kink confidence, and how exploring pleasure can unloc ... Show More

34m 45s

Dirty Talk Your Way To Your Next Orgasm