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Feb 2024
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769 - GIRL TALK: Swingers Clubs/Parties,...

Kathy Kay
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Mizzy Bender, of MIndBender parties called in to talk all about swingers parties/clubs. How do you find a swingers party in your area? Once you found d the party, how do you get invited? And, what are the unspoken rules you should follow?? Tune in to hear all the details including why Mizzy is passionate about talking bout the swinger world, why you might have to travel to find a party in your area, what to include on your swinger profile and why it’s so important to be specific, how her party and other swingers parties/clubs vet people to be invited, how do clubs protect peoples privacy once they’re there, how and why its so important to make sure you’re well dressed for the party, how you don’t have to be naked if you don’t want to be, how a typical night at a swingers event goes, how consent works and why its super important to how how consent works in the lifestyle, how to hit on people while you’re there and how to know when you shouldn’t be hitting on them, the perception of the lifestyle and how the reality of it differs, what kind of rules Mizzy has at her parties and why, how and why its a female led world, how solo men are treated at swinger events, how protection is supplied at parties and why its still important to bring your own, where she likes to play and have her threesomes since she doesn’t do it at work pus a whole lot more.


You can all her stuff (podcast, swinger parties, etc) here: https://www.mizzybender.com/


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