In this episode of "Enneagram and Coffee," I reflect on "What My Bones Know," a book about trauma and CPTSD. I share my initial hesitation about the book, my views on the permanence of trauma, and the importance of recognizing the effects of generational trauma. I discuss the nuances between CPTSD and PTSD triggers, the role of compassion, and the usefulness ... Show More
Apr 2025
Shadow Work for Type Nine
In this final episode of our Shadow Work series on Enneagram and Coffee, we explore the inner world of Type Nine—the Peacemaker. We dive into the common shadows of self-numbing, passivity, and anger repression, and how these patterns show up in daily life. Through practical exerc ... Show More
19m 38s
Apr 2025
Shadow Work for Type Eight
In this episode of Enneagram and Coffee, we continue our Shadow Work series with a deep dive into Enneagram Type Eight—the Challenger. We explore the often-hidden struggles of emotional repression, control, and fear of vulnerability, and how these patterns shape daily life. Throu ... Show More
17m 28s
Sep 2024
Thawing the Freeze: Moving Beyond Trauma With Dr. Arielle Schwartz
In this beautiful conversation, Monique Koven and trauma expert Dr. Arielle Schwartz delve into the complexities of trauma, resilience, and healing. They explore the nuances of complex trauma, the importance of therapy, and the power of community support in overcoming adversity. ... Show More
50m 38s
Mar 2023
227 | TRAUMA | This is Crucial to Know...
<p>On todays episode, I dive into trauma, the specifics of it, and the impact it can have over our long term health. What are the tools and strategies necessary to heal from these past emotional situations? I also read passages from great books like, The Body Keeps the Score, and ... Show More
33m 28s
Jul 2024
EP 479 The Body Keeps the Score: Unpacking Trauma Storage
In this episode, Celeste, a therapist from Boston, delves into the concept of how trauma is stored in the body, inspired by the book "The Body Keeps the Score." She also recommends an easier read on trauma, "What Happened to You?" by Oprah Winfrey, which explores various scenario ... Show More
29m 36s