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Dec 2023
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Best of 2023 | Mindsets and Frameworks t...

THE ART OF CHARM
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In today’s episode, we hand selected the best clips from 2023 to prepare you for the New Year. Check out the resources section down below for links to every interview in this episode. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!


If you've ever found yourself pondering how to navigate life's unexpected challenges, master the art of influence, or forge deeper connections, this episode is your guide. We uncover the secrets to turning envy into empowerment and inspire those around you. From the psychological tricks that make you irresistibly interesting to the key strategies for maintaining vibrant friendships and marriages, we've got you covered. Tune in to discover revolutionary solutions for avoiding burnout and fostering enduring relationships.


What to Listen For

  • Introduction – 0:00
  • How can you stay prepared for any unexpected hurdle in life?
  • The secret to framing questions to get people to do whatever you want 
  • What can you do to leverage envy to help you instead of making you feel bad about yourself?


  • The Key to Inspire Everyone Around You – 19:12
  • What is the psychological trick to be so interesting to the people around you that everyone wants to spend time with you?
  • What is the key to exude confidence when talking to someone you’ve just met?


  • The Secret Language of Relationships – 32:50
  • How should you respond to your romantic partner if you don’t want to get dumped or divorced?
  • Why is it important for us to make small talk with strangers everyday?


  • The Little Known Way to Make Friends When We’re Older – 40:47
  • What can you do to create solid friendships when you’re older while also maintaining your youthful energy and child-like curiosity?
  • What are the 5 layers of listening that will supercharge your communication skills?


  • The Revolutionary Solution to Saving Marriages – 56:21
  • What signs do you need to pay attention to if you don’t want your marriage to fail?


  • The Ultimate Approach to Avoiding Burnout and Relieving Stress & Anxiety – 1:02:40
  • What can you do to alleviate any feelings of burnout and relieve stress and anxiety immediately?
  • How do you make replacement friends as you get older and why is it important to maintain peak performance later in life?

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