In this episode, John Kim and Vanessa Bennett discuss the topic of trust and self-worth in relationships. They explore the connection between insecurity and trust issues, emphasizing the importance of developing a strong relationship with oneself. They also discuss the role of external validation and the process of building self-worth through personal experi ... Show More
Yesterday
How I’ve Made Women Feel Unsafe
In this episode, I walk through my past relationships and take ownership of the ways I’ve been unsafe. I share specific moments - steamrolling my ex-wife with logic instead of empathy, making subtle body comments that landed harder than I understood, ending relationships abruptly ... Show More
29m 56s
Mar 2
Fight Without Fighting: How to Build Real Intimacy
Most of us were never taught how to communicate in relationships. So we react. We defend. We assume. We build resentment. In this solo episode, John reframes “communication” as something deeper: intimacy, attunement, and repair. Because it’s not the conflict that destroys relatio ... Show More
27m 11s
Feb 26
Therapy Thursdays | Is It Over… Or Worth Saving?
In this episode, I answer your questions about breakups, expired relationships, and finding the courage to choose yourself. We talk about how to let go when you’re struggling to accept it’s over, how to know if a relationship is worth saving, and what it really takes to leave. I ... Show More
19m 51s
Mar 2025
How To Heal Insecure Attachment With Julie Menanno
Joined by special guest, Julie Menanno, our hosts sit down to discuss how to heal insecure attachment by focusing on self-awareness, emotional regulation, and developing a secure relationship with oneself. She emphasizes that attachment wounds manifest through self-abandonment, w ... Show More
56m 57s
Oct 2024
E063 - World’s #1 Therapist Reveals Secrets to Better Sex & Higher Self-Esteem | Marisa Peer
<strong>Joining me today is Marisa Peer</strong>, a world-renowned therapist, best-selling author and the visionary of Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT). With over 3 decades of experience, Marisa has helped thousands overcome issues related to self-esteem, confidence and love. ... Show More
1h 38m
Feb 2025
Using Heart-Based Connection in Building Healthy Relationships with Dr. Thema Bryant
<p>In this enlightening conversation, Kimberly interviews<strong> Dr. Tamah Bryant</strong>, a renowned psychologist and author, about her new book 'Matters of the Heart.' They explore the significance of emotional connections, the journey of healing from trauma, and the importa ... Show More
53m 7s
Aug 2024
#56 Understanding & Healing Anxious Attachment with Jessica Baum, LMHC, Psychotherapist
Our early experiences with primary caregivers can profoundly affect our relationships later in life — often in ways that are deeply unconscious — and it takes conscious work to change our patterns and facilitate healing. Psychotherapist, Jessica Baum, joins us today to guide us t ... Show More
24m 53s
Sep 2024
Lewis Howes: “Martha & I Did Everything Backwards!” How I Found Lasting Love with My Partner
<p>In this heartfelt episode, I have the pleasure of joining my good friend and Greatness Network partner Rob Dial for a deep dive into personal growth, relationships, and inner peace. Rob's thoughtful questions lead me to open up about my journey of healing from childhood trauma ... Show More
1h 11m
Sep 2025
How to Feel More Understood, Valued and Secure in Your Relationships with Alain de Botton #574
We live in a culture that often celebrates the ‘perfect’ relationship but does little to prepare us for the reality of long-term commitment. Modern life is filled with idealised images of love and marriage – but the truth, as this week’s returning guest suggests, is far more huma ... Show More
2h 3m
Sep 2025
334. How to fully trust yourself
We live in a world full of opinions, advice, and expectations - and somewhere in the noise, our own inner voice can get drowned out. Learning to trust yourself sounds simple, but in practice it’s a hard skills to build. Doubt, fear of mistakes, and the pressure to “get it right” ... Show More
39m 21s
Sep 2024
Nicole LePera: How to Break the Cycle of Trauma Bonds & Stop Toxic Relationship Habits
<p>What are your emotional needs?</p> <p>How do you communicate them clearly?</p> <p>Today, Jay welcomes back Dr. Nicole LePera, a holistic psychologist, best-selling author, and founder of the SelfHealers Circle, a global community for self-healing. She is the author of the New ... Show More
1h 16m