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Sep 2022
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MIKHAILA PETERSON
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In this episode, I spoke with Vanessa Bennett and John Kim about the dynamics of relationships. Together we discussed their book that they co-wrote, called "It's Not Me, It's You," different relationship attachment styles, common relationship problems, vulnerability and discernment, couples sleeping in separate beds, and much more.  Vanessa Bennett is a lic ... Show More
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