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May 2024
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Episode 292: Psychology Doesn’t Know Wha...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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Modern psychology has a very complicated relationship with gender. Gender differences have become one of the most contentious areas in the field, and it seems like psychology isn’t entirely sure what to do with men anymore. This is especially true for heterosexual men, who are often viewed through a pathological lens. So in today’s show, we’re going to ... Show More
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