In this week's podcast episode, I share my personal experience with navigating the distance in my relationship, as we tend to spend long periods apart due to the nature of his work. I also talk about the challenges of anxious-avoidant dynamics and how we make it work.
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How Anxious Attachment Can Lead to Selfish Tendencies
What if some of your anxious attachment behaviors are actually rooted in…selfishness? Not because you don’t care—but because fear can make everything feel urgent and all about you.In this episode, I share my own hard truths, the rigid expectations I used to set, and how healing s ... Show More
9m 14s
Jun 23
What If Your Attachment Style Isn’t What You Thought?
Ever taken an attachment quiz and thought, “Yup, I’m anxious”… only to find yourself totally avoidant once real intimacy kicks in? In this episode, I dive into why your feelings might say one thing, but your behaviors—especially under stress—reveal the real story. I’m sharing ins ... Show More
9m 49s
Jan 2024
#129: Building Self-Worth & a Secure Dating Mindset with Dr. Morgan Anderson
In today's episode, I'm joined by Dr. Morgan Anderson and we're talking all about building self-worth, self-esteem and self-confidence in the context of dating. Dr. Morgan is a licensed clinical psychologist, attachment theory expert, relationship coach, and author ... Show More
52m 35s
Jun 2024
SLP 390: Running From What You Need To Focus On In Life with Leigh Stalker
‘I used to do a lot of endurance sports, the long-distance running and triathlons, Iron Man’s and things like that and what I realised is I got really good at running a long way, running away. So, I was using running and those endurance sports as a way to distract myself from the ... Show More
1h 7m
Aug 2023
#32 - “Is it relationship anxiety…or are we incompatible?”
“Is it relationship anxiety…or are we incompatible?” is the #1 question I am asked as a relationship anxiety coach.
In this episode, I share 2 frameworks to consider when answering this question, why answering this question can be so challenging, and important reminders to keep i ... Show More
48m 11s