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Aug 2023
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#32 - “Is it relationship anxiety…or are...

Sarah Yudkin
About this episode

“Is it relationship anxiety…or are we incompatible?” is the #1 question I am asked as a relationship anxiety coach.

In this episode, I share 2 frameworks to consider when answering this question, why answering this question can be so challenging, and important reminders to keep in mind if this question brings up a lot of fear for you.

To explore this topic further:

Check out the “is it anxiety or incompatibility?” webinar + Q&A replay. Get it here for $27.

Or, apply for private coaching here.

Here is the Mel Robbins Dr. Spirit clip referenced in the podcast

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