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May 2021
7m 14s

Something's wrong. Should I speak up?

Susan Winter: Professional Love and Life Mentor
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You sense that something's wrong. Your partner is pulling away. You want to speak up but fear doing so. What if you look weak and needy? Here's the best approach to take: #pullingaway #speakingup #somethingswrong 
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