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There’s a real fear in modern dating that if you slow things down, you could lose them. But if you rush, you could lose yourself. Here’s how to pace the physical for YOUR benefit. Rushing is for their convenience, not yours. The right time for sex is when it’s right for you. Don’ ... Show More

You’ve grown, evolved, and leveled up. What once impressed you no longer does, and you’ve outgrown your former “type.” You’re in The Void. Here’s how to proceed. The Void doesn’t last forever. The loneliness is temporary before you reach the next plateau. Trust your inner guidanc ... Show More

You’re dating someone wonderful, but you’d take your ex back in a heartbeat. Can you build a new relationship while you’re still in love with your ex? Loving your ex doesn’t automatically mean you should stop dating. But lingering feelings and waiting for reconciliation are two d ... Show More

<p>When someone pulls away, it can be difficult to navigate. Often times we feel like we did something wrong to mess the relationship up. It can cause a lot of anxiety if we&#39;re not sure where the other person stands or why they&#39;re distancing themselves...when everything s ... Show More

Is your partner pulling away? It can be an unnerving experience, especially when you don't know why your partner seems checked out lately. But you can use this as an opportunity to gain clarity about how your partner is feeling in your relationship and start a conversation that b ... Show More

Does your partner tune you out, or get defensive and withdrawn when you try to get vulnerable with them? Check you're not accidentally repelling them by doing this one thing. If you prefer to watch the IG live you can do so here Join Tension of Opposites Every Saturday from July ... Show More

<p>Relationships can be a rollercoaster ride, with ups and downs that can leave us feeling uncertain and anxious. One common concern that arises is when your partner starts to pull away. In this podcast, we&apos;ll explore the various reasons why this might happen and discuss str ... Show More

In today's episode, I'm sharing some thoughts on how to navigate a partner pulling away. If you're someone with anxious attachment patterns, a partner's withdrawal or disengagement can feel extremely distressing - and yet, many of our go-to strategies for managing that distress c ... Show More

Ever felt anxious or embarrassed by your socially awkward partner? You're not alone and not crazy. I've got you. Here's a mental shift you can make to have more peace, and also some actionable steps you can take to support your partner in becoming more of a social butterfly. Link ... Show More

<p>What should you do if you're insecure, maybe even paranoid, that your partner is going to cheat?  Should you spy on them?  Should you confess your feelings?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to deal with this fear when it shows up in your love life.</p> 

Sex is inherently vulnerable, which is partly why it’s so hot. But how do you take the extremely vulnerable – even awkward – step of telling a partner something sensitive? Maybe their breath is bad. Maybe you’re bored with the sex itself. Or maybe you're afraid to tell a partner ... Show More

<p>If you have an anxious attachment style, your first instinct when your avoidant partner pulls away will be to run after them. But this rarely works. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explain what a secure person would do when an avoidant starts to pull away.<br><br>Get <a href= ... Show More