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Nov 2023
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things to remember when THAT photo ruins...

cara and leo
About this episode

Have you ever taken a HORRIBLE photo of yourself and It ruins your day?? Been there.. done that…

In this episode we share a recent experience that cara had with a “bad” photo and all the thoughts that came up after that. We discuss why things like that should not matter and check in on how we are feeling overall with our confidence & self-esteem, and sharing some advice that we have learnt along the way.

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