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Nov 2023
14m 15s

It's Okay To Not Know & Here's Why

The Angry Therapist
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In this episode, John talks about uncertainty and how to handle the anxiety of "not knowing" what's going to happen. He also talks about attracting vs chasing, and shares his own personal stories about training his nervous system to be okay with not knowing what's going to come, and trust that everything will work out as it should. Roughly ten minutes of sel ... Show More
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