Send us Fan Mail It’s often in relationships where your old wounds and protection mechanisms come roaring back—especially when it matters most. In this episode, I share three common—but rarely named—ways we show up in love that actually keep us stuck in cycles of frustration, emotional shutdown, or over-functioning. You’ll learn what these patterns look like ... Show More
Jun 4
Ep 198: Why Attractive People Feel Like a Threat in Relationships
Send us Fan MailIf attractive people around your partner instantly trigger insecurity, comparison, or anxiety, this episode is for you.We'll explore why this happens, what your "scanner part" is actually trying to protect, and how old wounds can make attractiveness feel threateni ... Show More
46m 6s
Mar 2026
Ep 197: After 20 Years of Inner Work, 3 Months in ERA Changed Everything — Emerson’s Story
Send us Fan MailAfter 20 years of trying to fix herself, Emerson had reached a point where she believed nothing would truly change. The anxiety, the hypervigilance, the patterns in relationships — they felt too deep, too ingrained.In this conversation, she shares what shifted whe ... Show More
1h 10m
Oct 2025
#210: Can You Heal in a Relationship That Constantly Triggers You?
So often, we’re drawn to the work of healing our relational wounds because of challenges in our relationship. A partner’s behaviour, or the dynamic between us, shines a light on our pain points and shows us where our work might be. But this can raise a difficult question: if we’r ... Show More
19m 9s
Jul 2024
Attachment Styles, Relationships, Trauma, Healing, Respect, Skibidi Toilet - EP. 31
In this episode we discuss how to maintain a healthy relationship despite having broken attachment styles. We also talk about our thoughts on liking and following people when you're in a relationship. Xoxoxo
33m 47s