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Feb 2024
45m 43s

Ep 131: 3 less-talked-about mistakes tha...

Eva Beronius
About this episode

It’s often in relation with others that our emotional wounds and protection mechanisms were created, which means it’s in our relationships they will show up - even when we think we’ve done all the work to shift them.

This episode looks at three ways we show up in relationships that are widely normalized - but are actually what keep you stuck in old reactions and dynamics.

This is part one in a series on how to use the issues, reactions and emotions showing up in your relationships to finally heal core wounds and be free from old conditioning.

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