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Oct 2023
49m 15s

When perpetual resentment is the new nor...

PAUL COLAIANNI
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What happens when there is a huge challenge in a relationship, perhaps where one person wrongs the other in some way, and the relationship changes for the worst... forever? Can it be salvaged? Is it over? Can there be a different "new normal" after a long resentment? All questions I try to answer in this episode.  
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