When the emotional abuser reaches back o...

Sometimes emotionally abusive people heal and change. Sometimes they just... change. Either way, when the victim of their behavior gets a "break", they might discover a lot of buried emotions that are just itching to come out. 

I've seen emotionally abusive people heal and become completely different people. You wouldn't even recognize them! And when you no longer recognize the person who's hurt you over and over again, that might be a very good thing. 

When you've decided to leave the emotionally abusive relationship, when is the best time to bring it up? During the storm or the calm? 

<p>If you're doing no contact to get your ex back and haven't heard from your ex in days, weeks or months, you're probably wondering what they are thinking and what they are feeling. Do they miss you?. Have they quickly moved on? Are they angry? Are they relieved? Will t ... Show More

<p>There is a common mistake most people make when they first hear back from their ex, which will delay the time it takes for the ex to come back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and what you should do instead.</p> 

<p>One of the most asked questions when someone wants to get their ex back is if their ex will forget about them if they don't contact them after the breakup.  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's actually your ex who is going to be wondering if you ... Show More

What happens when there is a huge challenge in a relationship, perhaps where one person wrongs the other in some way, and the relationship changes for the worst... forever? Can it be salvaged? Is it over? Can there be a different "new normal" after a long resentment? All question ... Show More

<p>When people get dumped, they usually make one crucial mistake that hurts their chances of getting their ex back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what this mistake is and what you need to do instead. </p> 

<p>You shouldn't always try to get an ex back, especially if the relationship was toxic. What behaviors should you walk away from? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads and comments on 2 emails from women who should not get back with their exes.</p> 

<p>When someone breaks up with you, at that moment, you are temporarily powerless. Whether you get your ex back or not often depends on how you react to the breakup. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to react to a breakup in order to ensure that you have the best ... Show More

<p>If you want to get your ex back and you've been doing "no contact", there's a very good chance that you'll hear from your ex sooner or later.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you probably shouldn't respond to the first message and what to do instead.<br><br><br></ ... Show More

<p>When someone is trying to get their ex back, they often make the mistake of thinking they have to be "nice" to them, in order to get them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why being nice may actually backfire and why you have to "hurt" your ex in order to get ... Show More

<p>Is there a way to make your ex reach out to you? If so, should you do it or wait for them to contact you when they're ready? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why trying to get your ex to reach out to you often backfires.</p>