When the emotional abuser reaches back o...

Some people will deflect blame and make you feel like the problem. In this episode, I dive into this subject by examining a heart-wrenching story from a listener whose partner’s jealousy turned violent, leaving her questioning the future of their relationship and her path to heal ... Show More

The emotionally abusive relationship can sometimes be hard to define. How long must abusive behavior go on before actually admit that what's really happening is abuse? 

How do you know when it’s time to instigate a split? If your partner’s behavior leaves you feeling oppressed and defeated, and they refuse to change, and they also don't want to end the relationship, then what? 

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back and haven't heard from your ex in days, weeks or months, you're probably wondering what they are thinking and what they are feeling. Do they miss you?. Have they quickly moved on? Are they angry? Are they relieved? Will they ever rea ... Show More

There is a common mistake most people make when they first hear back from their ex, which will delay the time it takes for the ex to come back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what it is and what you should do instead. 

One of the most asked questions when someone wants to get their ex back is if their ex will forget about them if they don't contact them after the breakup.  In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's actually your ex who is going to be wondering if you've ... Show More

What happens when there is a huge challenge in a relationship, perhaps where one person wrongs the other in some way, and the relationship changes for the worst... forever? Can it be salvaged? Is it over? Can there be a different "new normal" after a long resentment? All question ... Show More

When people get dumped, they usually make one crucial mistake that hurts their chances of getting their ex back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what this mistake is and what you need to do instead. 

You shouldn't always try to get an ex back, especially if the relationship was toxic. What behaviors should you walk away from? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads and comments on 2 emails from women who should not get back with their exes. 

When someone breaks up with you, at that moment, you are temporarily powerless. Whether you get your ex back or not often depends on how you react to the breakup. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to react to a breakup in order to ensure that you have the best chance ... Show More

If you want to get your ex back and you've been doing "no contact", there's a very good chance that you'll hear from your ex sooner or later.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why you probably shouldn't respond to the first message and what to do instead. 

When someone is trying to get their ex back, they often make the mistake of thinking they have to be "nice" to them, in order to get them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why being nice may actually backfire and why you have to "hurt" your ex in order to get them b ... Show More

Is there a way to make your ex reach out to you? If so, should you do it or wait for them to contact you when they're ready? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why trying to get your ex to reach out to you often backfires.