No Relationship Is Ever a Failure

Tempted to break no contact? Don't do it until you listen to this episode!Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals when breaking it might lead to reconciliation and when it's almost guaranteed to backfire.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secret ... Show More

"No chance" doesn't mean it's over. In this episode, find out how to take back control and shift the way your ex sees you - so they may start rethinking the breakup.Dating/relationship expert Lucia shows you exactly how to change the dynamic, build attraction and create the best ... Show More

Were you broken up with or had to walk away from an avoidant? Do you wonder if they miss you and regret to break up? Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what happens when someone with avoidant attachment realize they lost someone irreplaceable. Get coaching!Download Silenzio ... Show More

Relationships are not easy, and they are not always painful or difficult either. In this episode I talk about how something’s that we hear and see can really mess up our ideas about what a ‘perfect relationship’ is and what can we expect from a long-term relationship. 

Dating is a lot of work! It is all too easy to end up discouraged & want to give up because someone else has once again not followed through & just disappeared. Family & friends often don’t appreciate how painful & difficult the process of dating can be. There is so much pressure ... Show More

Every committed couple begins with the best of intentions, believing they’ll love each other forever. But we all know it doesn’t always work out that way. The truth is that people often accidentally damage their relationships beyond the point of repair... without even realizing i ... Show More

What happens when there is a huge challenge in a relationship, perhaps where one person wrongs the other in some way, and the relationship changes for the worst... forever? Can it be salvaged? Is it over? Can there be a different "new normal" after a long resentment? All question ... Show More

When relationships grow apart, we often hear people fall back on explanations like "We just got too busy," or "We don't live near each other anymore." But the reality is that the relationship ended because it was nothing more than a casual relationship that was supported by circu ... Show More

So many of us need to refuel, rebuild and or redo a relationship. Whether it’s with a friend, parent or spouse, this is the episode where you’ll learn ways to rebuild trust, and make it work. Relationships are the biggest cause for concern and stress for us. If you’ve had an argu ... Show More

Failure is something that we often try to avoid. We are taught from a young age that it's not okay to make mistakes, and that we should always do our best in order to be successful. But what if failure was actually the key to success? What if we stopped being afraid of failure, a ... Show More

Was that just a nasty fight? Or a sign that your relationship is failing? As a longtime marriage counselor, I know that it can be hard to spot the difference. Some forms of conflict are healthy and even beneficial for relationships, while others are a signal that your emotional b ... Show More