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Aug 2020
42m 35s

#208 - Letting Go Of Resentment

DR. LISA MARIE BOBBY
About this episode

Are you holding on to resentment about hurtful things that have happened in the past? Is your partner? In today's episode, we’re talking about how to let go of resentment in your relationship, so that you can both move forward, put the past behind you, and start enjoying each other again.

xo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

www.GrowingSelf.com

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