"God must be out to get me."
"This must be some kind of cosmic joke."
"You know what? Fine. I don't want a relationship anyway."
"I'm focusing on my career. I don't need a man."
If any of these sound familiar, then this episode is for you.
If you're the kind of person who truly enjoys being single…good for you! But if you're saying you're fine with bein ... Show More
Oct 8
Ep 30. Part 2: The Loudest Boundaries are Unspoken
In this episode, we explore how to express a boundary without feeling controlling, rude, or as though you’re being “too much.” In Part Two of The Loudest Boundaries Are Unspoken, we chat about managing your attention as a form of boundary—and how people can learn what you are and ... Show More
33m 44s
Sep 24
Ep 28. Making Friends in Adulthood as an Ambitious Woman + My Experience at the Create and Cultivate Festival
In this episode, we explore what it looks like to make friends in adulthood as an ambitious woman—from getting past the beliefs that make putting yourself out there feel harder than it needs to, to finding people who are actually OPEN to connection. We also chat why ambitious wom ... Show More
48m 2s
Jul 2024
[Solo] How to Decenter Men and Romantic Relationships
#243: Whether you’re happily single, dating, or in a relationship, it’s essential to recognize the importance of prioritizing yourself amidst societal relationship standards.In today's solo episode, I’m shifting the spotlight away from finding ‘the one’ and delving into the journ ... Show More
56m 27s
Jun 2023
Why Being Single Can Be Great.
📣 SINGLE LADIES! I hear you rolling your eyes saying "but Erika, I don't want to be single anymore! I want to find love..."
But hear me out Queen, on today's episode I am sharing some key reasons why you being single right now, can be great.
Obviously you may not want to stay si ... Show More
14m 59s
May 2023
Ep. 189 - I should be happy on my own
<p dir="ltr">In this episode, we dive into the journey of self-love, worth, and the struggle of wanting a relationship while also feeling the pressure to be content alone. Join us as we explore a refreshing perspective that challenges the conventional belief that you "should" be ... Show More
10m 46s
Jun 2023
Work on yourself so much until they're not your type anymore
<p>If you're overly consumed by the idea of a person instead of focusing on yourself, this episode is for you. We get so caught up and easily fixated on a new relationship, or a partner that isn't giving us the love we deserve, and it becomes an ultimate form of distracti ... Show More
25m 6s
<p class="" data-start="219" data-end="409">If you've ever found yourself chasing love, craving validation, or trying a little <em data-start="329" data-end="339">too hard</em> to make your manifestations land — this episode is your wake-up call.</p> <p class="" data-start="411" ... Show More