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Sep 2023
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219. Why You're Not "Doomed" to "Being S...

Beatrice Kamau
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"God must be out to get me." "This must be some kind of cosmic joke." "You know what? Fine. I don't want a relationship anyway." "I'm focusing on my career. I don't need a man." If any of these sound familiar, then this episode is for you. If you're the kind of person who truly enjoys being single…good for you! But if you're saying you're fine with bein ... Show More
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