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Jul 2024
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[Solo] How to Decenter Men and Romantic ...

She's So Lucky
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#243: Whether you’re happily single, dating, or in a relationship, it’s essential to recognize the importance of prioritizing yourself amidst societal relationship standards.

In today's solo episode, I’m shifting the spotlight away from finding ‘the one’ and delving into the journey of what it truly means to become the main character of your own life.

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