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Aug 2024
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Is It My Fault I'm Still Single? Why are...

BETHANY BEAL AND KRISTEN CLARK
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Ep. 185 - You're single, but you don't want to be. You want a man. You want a leader. You want a protector. You want a LOVER. So why isn't it happening? Why hasn't God brought marriage into your life? 

The nagging question for many... "Is it my fault I'm still single?" 

In today's episode, the two of us share our own experiences and offer practical encouragement with ways you can trust God AND attract a man at the same time. 

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