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Sep 2023
58m 30s

114. Is Perfectionism Ruining Your Life?

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Psychologist Thomas Curran argues that perfectionism isn’t about high standards — it’s about never being enough. He explains how the drive to be perfect is harming education, the economy, and our mental health. 
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