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Dec 2024
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Why do we push ourselves to be perfect? ...

AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION
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In job interviews and in life, perfectionism is often seen as a selling point – an asset disguised as a flaw. But as psychologists have found rising rates of perfectionism in the United States and around the world in recent decades, they’ve begun to recognize the toll that the drive to be perfect can take on people’s mental health and well-being. Thomas Curr ... Show More
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