Relationships are very difficult because we get lost in them: they can overtake our sense of self, especially if that relationship is long term and we don’t have a lot of contact with others outside of the relationship. This is a reminder to come back into your own shoes – if we tip off balance we start to default to what someone else wants or what we think ... Show More
Sep 11
Ep 239: The Safe Container: Moving from Healed + Higher
The hardest thing to do is be guided by the highest self versus the weakest, triggered self. The weakest self wants a fix: wants to self-soothe in the face of a low feeling. When we can create a strong routine and a safe container, we can be guided by our highest, wisest self and ... Show More
45m 10s
Sep 2022
don't lose yourself in your relationships
EP16 - relationships are hard sometimes! whether it's a relative, boyfriend, girlfriend, bestie or even at work, they take time and effort. something i have struggled with, and i know some of you have too, is remaining authentic within them and reminding myself of what i truly wa ... Show More
39m 22s
Oct 2025
Stop Giving More Than You Get in Relationships
If you keep feeling drained in your relationships — like you're giving more than you get — this episode will shift everything. Whether it’s friendships, family, or your partner, there’s one powerful mindset that can help you protect your energy, create emotional balance, and stop ... Show More
6m 22s
Oct 2023
Own Your Part: How to Foster Healthier Relationships Through Self-Awareness
In order to have happy, healthy relationships, we need to take responsibility for ourselves. But it's really hard to examine our own behavior or feelings in the midst of it all, isn't it? In this episode I will teach you to own your part, in a kinder, simpler way that will lead t ... Show More
14m 49s
Sep 2025
280. The Secret to Improving Your Relationship (Without Changing Your Partner)
So often we believe that a better relationship depends on our partner changing. But the truth is, the real work starts with you. If you’ve ever felt stuck giving too much, overcompensating, or constantly managing the relationship on your own, this episode is for you. I share prac ... Show More
29m 57s
Apr 2024
#69 - If My Relationship Isn't Easy, Am I Forcing It?
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In this episode, I address advice like “a relationship should feel mostly positive / easy / joyful in order to be worth it”, and “if the balance swings negative or if the association is that the relationship is difficult or complex then it’s a r ... Show More
57m 38s