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Aug 2023
37m 27s

3 Reasons You're Stuck In Life

Violet Benson
About this episode

Changing your perspective is like putting on a new pair of glasses that reveals a whole new world. It's essential because our outlook shapes our reality. When we shift our viewpoint, we unlock fresh insights, untapped potential, and a realm of possibilities that were previously hidden. 

Today, Violetta shares the three reasons why we remain stuck with where we are as well as the action steps we can take to move forward. From how our actions create our reality, how our emotions affect those actions, and the thoughts we have while taking action. It's all about shifting your mindset, and girl, you're about to crush it!   


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 02:40 The story you tell yourself
  • 06:17 Phase 1 - Our actions create our reality
  • 12:09 “Everything I’m doing, I chose to do.”
  • 16:26 Phase 2 - Our emotions dictate our actions
  • 20:09 Consumed by hatred
  • 24:07 Do you want to be right or become free?
  • 28:40 Phase 3 - Our thoughts affect our emotions
  • 32:18 Positive thinking transforms your life
  • 34:44 “Am I happy with the thoughts in my head?” 


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