In this episode, I dive into one of the most challenging and transformative aspects of personal growth: conflict. I share my perspective on how to navigate, embrace, and engage with conflict in the most next-level way possible. Conflict is golden because it accelerates the process of bringing unconscious material to the surface of your conscious awareness. T ... Show More
Jun 5
The Concept of Traumatizability
There is probably a spectrum of traumatizability. Some people, for reasons that span psychology, biology, spirituality, and beyond, just don't deeply internalize damage the way the world expects them to.I share something I have carried for nearly 20 years: a vague sense that a se ... Show More
14m 47s
Feb 2024
Good Conflict: How Healthy Disagreements Build Stronger Connections
Think conflict is bad? Think again!In this episode of Take Out Therapy, we’re flipping the script on conflict and exploring how it can actually be a powerful tool for growth and connection. Avoiding conflict might feel easier, but it can hold you back from deeper, more meaningful ... Show More
19m 14s
Jul 2025
Doing Conflict Better: Lars Borgmann
In this episode, ISTA facilitator Usha Rose speaks with systemic therapist and transformational guide Lars Borgmann about how to engage in conflict with others in a better way. As Lars explains, conflict can occur in any area of our lives, but our experiences of it are often so u ... Show More
53m 55s
Mar 2025
187. The Surprising Power of Triggers, Tough Love, & Looking at Your Blindspots to Uplevel + Heal
In this episode, I dive deep into the idea of taking radical responsibility for our lives and how embracing triggers can lead to personal growth. I explain how being open to uncomfortable moments and reflecting on the role we play in our own struggles can help us step into our em ... Show More
18m 36s
Nov 2022
How to Handle Conflict Better
Whether it be with family, friends, teammates or strangers, handling conflict with everyone's best interest in mind takes true skill. In this episode, learn 3 key pillars to handling challenging interactions like a pro. “Conflict and crisis aren’t going away, building relationshi ... Show More
43m 58s
Jul 2025
Conflict in Relationships: Why We React the Way We Do (And How to Change It)
Conflict is part of every relationship, but how we handle it is what really matters.In the final episode of our mini-series with cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa, we’re diving into what’s actually happening in your brain during conflict, and how your patterns, re ... Show More
45m 17s
Aug 2025
Episode 29 Conflict Resolution Tips for Life and Work
Conflict touches every aspect of our lives, from boardroom disagreements to family dinner table debates. Rather than viewing these moments as obstacles, successful individuals understand that conflict represents an opportunity for deeper understanding, stronger relationships, and ... Show More
20m 54s