Do you think you self-sabotage? Are you able to accept love? Does your past trauma make it hard for you to open up again? In this episode, we talk about the difference between self-sabotaging and protecting yourself, intentionality in dating, and having the courage to open up while Thomas begins his dating adventures in NYC. Enjoy!
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Jan 16
nonchalance is out, playfulness is in
when the nonchalance era started a few years ago, being nonchalant was the highest virtue, and with that virtue, came an even higher cost: your happiness. disguised as a compliment, nonchalance became a prison dressed as freedom - a way to stay safe by staying detached, to protec ... Show More
27m 5s
Jan 2
why do i feel ugly during the holidays?
there’s nothing like going back to ur childhood home during the holidays and, at first, feeling nostalgic, cozy, and maybe even happy… but then a week passes and suddenly you’re spiraling and feeling ugly. this episode, we talk about how the holidays can send us into an insecurit ... Show More
26m 42s
Jan 2024
What to do when they pull away + the best dating advice EVER ft. Jemma Sbeg
<p>NEW YEAR, NEW EPISODES! FINALLY, I have my very first guest on the Date Yourself Instead podcast, my dear incredible friend Jemma Sbeg, who hosts the <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/2HGcJRYrjGnpce6bRp8UXm" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Psychology of Your 20&# ... Show More
41m 50s
Mar 2024
#1 - Healing Through Past Relationships & The Story Of How We First Met
<p>Welcome to the first-ever episode of our new relationship podcast, Finding The One! Get ready to learn everything you want to know about relationships, get your questions answered, and be encouraged as we share our own love story with you. </p>
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1h 12m
Jan 2021
The Story of Avery and Soph, Having a Public Relationship & Our Thoughts on Cancel Culture
In this episode, I am joined by my amazing and BEAUTIFUL girlfriend, Avery Cyrus! We finally go into the long-awaited, detailed story of "us" and how we came to be. This episode includes never-heard-before details about what the 6 months prior to us dating entailed. It is one hec ... Show More
54m 39s
Aug 2023
35. For You: The Dating Advice We Wish We Knew Sooner
<p>You sent in your dating struggles; we pulled our best advice out of our asses. In this strange new world of app dating, constant anxiety, and ever-changing standards, how do we stay true to ourselves when looking for connection? Not super well, but everything we've learned ... Show More
1h 29m