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Jun 2023
32m 25s

Am I Self-Sabotaging In Relationships?

GrownKid
About this episode
Do you think you self-sabotage? Are you able to accept love? Does your past trauma make it hard for you to open up again? In this episode, we talk about the difference between self-sabotaging and protecting yourself, intentionality in dating, and having the courage to open up while Thomas begins his dating adventures in NYC. Enjoy! News! Kayla and Gael st ... Show More
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