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May 2022
1h 17m

How To Stop Sabotaging Your Own Relation...

BETCHES MEDIA
About this episode
Jordana and Naomi are back for week two of the podcast and start things off with a convo about one of the most common sources of aggravation we all share: customer service. Why does the person on the other end of the phone get under our skin so often? Then they tackle the equally relatable topic of self sabotage. The (long af) Overshare email of the week inv ... Show More
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