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Aug 2025
7 m

“I’ve Always Been Dumped”

Amplify
About this episode
A listener asks: is dating someone fresh out of a six-year relationship a red flag… or just real life? Kat and Latisha dive into emotional timelines, what really counts as a “rebound,” and why breakups aren’t always what they seem. Plus, Lastisha opens up about her own dating history - revealing she’s never actually been the one to do the dumping.

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