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Jun 2023
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For Anyone Who Feels Rejected or Invisib...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
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Dating doesn’t feel magical and fun when nothing seems to be going our way.  Sometimes it feels as though love and attention come easy to everybody else, meanwhile, for us, dating feels like a string of painful rejections or endless cycles of feeling used and overlooked.  The reality is that some people simply have an easier time in dating than others. So if you are someone who doesn’t identify with getting a lot of attention or having much luck, how can you combat the insidious feeling of panic that it simply won’t happen for you? If you relate to this, today’s new episode will provide a much-needed boost. It will help you overcome the pain of frequent rejection and reframe the situation you’re in so you can feel hopeful again.


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