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Jun 2023
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DON'T CHASE After Sleeping Together DO T...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

Sex can either be a massive turning point for a new relationship, or a gateway to more anxiety and pressure . . . This is because even though we may want to, it can feel hard to ask for more from the person we’re sleeping with when we’re afraid we’ll scare them away. But what if I told you there’s a high-value way to approach this situation—one that can pave the way for a more meaningful connection? Don’t miss this week’s brand-new episode to learn the three ways you can approach these conversations.


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