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Feb 2024
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Do we have sex often enough?

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About this episode

Despite its many benefits, sex can also bring on a bit of stress at times. You feel like you have to fit into a certain mould. Have sex often enough, but not too much or you might seem overly fixated. Don't lose your virginity too early, but don't wait too long either. Even sexual performance is expected to meet certain standards.

Ultimately, sex, which is supposed to be one of the most intimate acts, comes with its own set of social pressures. And that can quickly take the fun out of bedroom escapades.

How often do most people have sex then? Do men and women have the same level of sex drive? In under 3 minutes, we answer your questions!

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