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Jun 2023
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877 - The secret to self-control

Gregg Clunis
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In this episode, we look at a basic process that just might help improve your self-control.


Episode Overview:

1. Trigger Mapping: We kick off by defining what trigger mapping is and discuss why it plays a crucial role in behavior modification. The idea behind trigger mapping and its profound impact on our behaviors is explored.


2. Deep Dive into Triggers: We dive deeper into triggers using the Fogg Behavior Model. We then proceed to categorize triggers into two broad types - internal, those arising from our feelings, and external, those driven by events around us. Common examples of triggers and their implications are also looked into.


3. Neutrality of Behaviors: Here we delve into the concept of the neutrality of behaviors, emphasizing that behaviors in themselves are neither good nor bad. Instead, they often get their labels from societal or cultural influences. We discuss how behavior aligns or doesn't align with personal goals, underscoring that it's okay either way.


4. The Power of Awareness: We shed light on how increased awareness leads to significant behavior changes. Conscious recognition of one's thoughts, emotions, and actions is a pivotal step towards self-improvement and personal growth.


5. How to Trigger Map: Wrapping up the episode, we provide a comprehensive guide on how to engage in trigger mapping. The process starts with identifying actions perceived as 'negative', and then analyzing the situation surrounding these actions. We delve into the role of internal and external factors and demonstrate how to map a trigger (or list of triggers) to the action. We then discuss strategies on how one could potentially change the trigger-action sequence. An example of this could be the habit of overeating when staying up late.


This episode will help you understand your triggers better and equip you with the necessary tools to enable behavioral change. Tune in to gain insights into the science of triggers, the neutrality of behaviors, and the power of awareness.


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