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Jun 2022
15m 43s

If you love them let them go (real talk)

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About this episode

Ok, literally *everyone* says this. But seriously, a large part of moving on is acceptance, and today’s episode is a walk down the brutal streets of acceptance lane. Why leaving someone alone who doesn’t want you in their life is the nicest thing you can do for them, and why you can’t love another person into loving you back.

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