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Mar 2022
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Good or Not so Good? | الافعال الطيبة بح...

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What I want to say that I am a good person and will do good by you; but not to the extend where I could lose myself. By the end of the day; You want to be nice but you do not allow people to hurt you. You be good but do not let others use and abuse you. You are a giving person; but don’t let people suck the life out of you… Because once you show them that th ... Show More
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